Being asked to be a bridesmaid is an honor. Brides usually choose their closest friends and relatives for the job. It is hard enough to a bridesmaid if the wedding is at home. And, for a destination wedding, it takes a bit of planning to ensure that you have everything you need for the big day. Plan on the luggage you need to take. You need at least two – the suitcase that will have the bulk of your things and a garment bag or folder which will hold your bridesmaid dress. If you are flying, remember the 50-pound weight